{"id":1658,"date":"2022-01-10T20:10:01","date_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:10:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1658"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:13:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:13:59","slug":"my-gratitude-list-wedding-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1658","title":{"rendered":"My Gratitude List: Wedding Edition"},"content":{"rendered":"<body>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For the past eighteen months, in addition to a decades-long tradition of keeping a diary, I\u2019ve been writing in a gratitude journal. During these challenging times, finding and appreciating the positive is of great comfort. What remains a constant on my list \u2013 that the stars aligned for Steve and me to have the wedding of our dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"727\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg?resize=640%2C727\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1656\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg?resize=902%2C1024 902w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg?resize=264%2C300 264w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg?resize=768%2C872 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Ceremony-smaller.jpg?w=1091 1091w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>I Do at last!<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After two Covid-related postponements and well over a year after our initial date, we finally tied the knot over Thanksgiving weekend. It couldn\u2019t have been a more fitting holiday given how everything came together for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m most grateful we were able to celebrate safely with those closest to our hearts. With a smaller guest list (82 instead of 160) and everyone in attendance being fully vaccinated, nobody got sick thank God. We could not have asked for a better wedding present \u2014 though the kindness and generosity with which we\u2019ve been showered continues to blow us away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg?resize=640%2C480\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1669\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg?resize=1024%2C768 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg?resize=300%2C225 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg?resize=768%2C576 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/80s-cruisers-smaller.jpg?w=1296 1296w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>All smiles with our dear 80s Cruise friends<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m grateful our special day happened before \u2013 literally <em>right before<\/em>, as it turned out \u2014 the current surge. Many of our family and friends flew into New York from out of state or out of the country.  I can\u2019t and don\u2019t want to imagine what the wedding would have been without them. Speaking of those who traveled a fair distance, I am deeply grateful for cherished Europe-based girlfriends Camilla, Candy, Caroline, Eva and Leila. In addition to crossing the Atlantic, they navigated ever-changing Covid restrictions and test requirements to be with us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"449\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?resize=640%2C449\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1677\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?resize=1024%2C718 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?resize=300%2C210 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?resize=768%2C539 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?w=1457 1457w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Friends.jpg?w=1280 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>The best friends a bride could ever have.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also braving the pandemic-era skies were dear friends A Martinez, Bobbi, Brad, Gaby, Inga, Lisa and Deane, Marilyn, Matt, Susannah, Taslin and Viva, along with my amazing in-laws. I don\u2019t have the words to say how much this meant to me and Steve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m grateful to our beloved Benji. Not only did this little lovebug ace his duties as pup of honor, he took good care of me like he always does. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?resize=640%2C800\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1652\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?resize=819%2C1024 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?resize=240%2C300 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?resize=768%2C960 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?resize=1229%2C1536 1229w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?w=1440 1440w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Benj-and-me.jpg?w=1280 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>I\u2019ve never been prouder of my little guy.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When emotions started getting the better of me, Benj instinctively knew. For a good twenty minutes while I was getting my hair done, he did not leave my side. His sweet face and affection calmed my nerves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve often said the wedding felt like being enveloped in the biggest, most loving group hug ever. A huge part of that was the presence of my longtime hero, A. Having A walk me down the aisle and sharing a special dance together were two of the happiest moments in a day defined by an extraordinary abundance of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG-3874.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"866\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG-3874.jpg?resize=640%2C866\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1653\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG-3874.jpg?w=664 664w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG-3874.jpg?resize=222%2C300 222w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>A dream come true.<\/em> <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m deeply grateful to cousin-in-law Julie and longtime dear friend Lisa R. for making sure I stayed well hydrated at the reception. Hubs and I worked up quite a sweat on the dance floor, so plying me with water was no small thing! Love you, ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m grateful to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.enzaevents.com\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.enzaevents.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Enza Events<\/a> for their hard work and creativity.  From stunning florals and table d\u00e9cor to lighting, Enza and her fabulous team brought my winter wonderland vision to life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Wedding-decor.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"881\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Wedding-decor.jpg?resize=640%2C881\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1654\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Wedding-decor.jpg?w=653 653w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Wedding-decor.jpg?resize=218%2C300 218w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>Winter wonderland magic at our reception.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ditto for wedding cake designer extraordinaire Ron Ben-Israel. Our spectacular two cakes tasted as beautiful as they looked. At a time when customer service has become the exception rather than the rule, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.weddingcakes.com\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.weddingcakes.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">RBI Cakes<\/a> and Enza Events went above and beyond. Working with them was an absolute delight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Untitled-presentation-1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"407\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Untitled-presentation-1.jpg?resize=640%2C407\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1657\" data-full-url=\"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Untitled-presentation-1.jpg\" data-link=\"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?attachment_id=1657\" class=\"wp-image-1657\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Untitled-presentation-1.jpg?w=759 759w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Untitled-presentation-1.jpg?resize=300%2C191 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-item__caption\"><em>Dessert bliss!<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will be forever grateful that, against pandemic odds, we were blessed with a magical, perfect day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Terrace-1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Terrace-1.jpg?resize=640%2C426\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1655\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Terrace-1.jpg?w=922 922w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Terrace-1.jpg?resize=300%2C200 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Terrace-1.jpg?resize=768%2C511 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>Paradise.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To quote Hungarian poet Janos Arany \u2013 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cIn dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the past eighteen months, in addition to a decades-long tradition of keeping a diary, I\u2019ve been writing in a gratitude journal. 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