{"id":1784,"date":"2022-12-29T21:00:04","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1784"},"modified":"2022-12-29T21:00:07","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:00:07","slug":"what-im-thankful-for-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1784","title":{"rendered":"What I\u2019m Thankful For"},"content":{"rendered":"<body>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gratitude and Covid-19 don\u2019t usually go in the same sentence. But when my husband Steve and I recently tested positive, that is very much what I felt. Grateful we were fully vaccinated and boosted, with only cold-like symptoms. Grateful the positive result came one day <em>before<\/em> a scheduled trip to New York. And most grateful that if we had to get sick, it did not happen anywhere near our wedding last year or when we were flying regularly between NYC and Orlando.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Within about a week, we were feeling better and we\u2019re back to our normal routine now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cGood health \u2013 physical, mental, emotional \u2014 is everything,\u201d my mom used to say. \u201cWith it, all things are possible. Without it, nothing else matters.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Covid aside, this holiday season has brought sobering reminders of how true this is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Earlier this month, my beautiful friend Rachel died of colon cancer. Just like when <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1034\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">dear friend Molly<\/a> passed away from breast cancer six years ago, I am devastated to see someone so young and vibrant taken. Molly was 45, Rachel only 38. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"852\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me-769x1024.jpg?resize=640%2C852&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1792\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me.jpg?resize=769%2C1024 769w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me.jpg?resize=768%2C1022 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Rachel-and-me.jpg?w=849 849w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>Rachel was beautiful inside and out.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Truly incandescent souls, it doesn\u2019t seem possible both of them are gone now. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My cousin says God needed Rachel to come home to be an angel, to be part of a bigger plan. An angel for sure, she made the transition of moving to Orlando from New York less lonely for me. After being introduced through a mutual friend, we clicked immediately. Though I mourn the memories we will not have, I cherish the ones we shared and will be forever grateful to have known her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of Rachel\u2019s favorite things was Hallmark holiday movies. This year, for the first time and in her honor, I watched several. Spirited and fun \u2013 much like her \u2013 they injected an additional dose of festive cheer into the season. My favorites: the NYC-set <em>Hanukkah on Rye, <em>Eight Gifts of Hannukah<\/em><\/em> and <em>A Castle for Christmas<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"346\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie-1024x554.png?resize=640%2C346&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1789\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie.png?resize=1024%2C554 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie.png?resize=300%2C162 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie.png?resize=768%2C416 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/castle-movie.png?w=1271 1271w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>A Castle for Christmas: Cary Elwes and Brooke Shields are delightful together<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m especially grateful that I\u2019m beginning to feel more settled into life as a Floridian. Little by little, I am putting down roots here. Getting to know Orlando better, slowly making friends and soon, moving to a new house. Can\u2019t think of a better way to ring in 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?ssl=1\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1707\" height=\"2560\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?fit=640%2C960&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1786\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?w=1707 1707w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?resize=200%2C300 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?resize=683%2C1024 683w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1152 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C1536 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?resize=1365%2C2048 1365w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Spears-28-scaled.jpg?w=1280 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em>Me and my guys. Photo: Lori Barbely<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of all, I remain overwhelmingly grateful for the blessings of married life with Steve and our beloved pup Benji. These two give me so much. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world to share my days with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Happy New Year!<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gratitude and Covid-19 don\u2019t usually go in the same sentence. But when my husband Steve and I recently tested positive, that is very much what I felt. Grateful we were fully vaccinated and boosted, with only cold-like symptoms&#8230;. <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=1784\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"New Blog Post: Gratitude & A holiday visit from Covid","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[320,27,88,337,157,1],"tags":[78,342,344,343,345],"class_list":["post-1784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-covid-era-life","category-friendship","category-holiday-season","category-making-friends","category-moving","category-uncategorized","tag-gratitude","tag-hallmark-movies","tag-nyc","tag-orlando","tag-recovering-from-covid"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"cc_featured_image_caption":{"caption_text":"","source_text":"","source_url":""},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4J0fq-sM","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1784"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1804,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1784\/revisions\/1804"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}