<\/p>Last weekend, I caught up with my good friend Bobbi for a fun girls night out.\n

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Reunited: Bobbi and me at W\u2019s Living Room Bar<\/p><\/div>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Over the course of both meals and then drinks at the W New York hotel, we talked about work, dating and memorable times past\u2014from a spa getaway in Connecticut<\/a> to our joint 40^{th<\/sup> birthday celebration<\/a>. We also reminisced about Helen, our beloved mutual family friend who introduced us 12 years ago.<\/p>\n}

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Tante Chaya and me at my family\u2019s annual holiday party, December 1997<\/p><\/div>\n
Helen, Tante Chaya as I knew her, passed away on Monday<\/span> at the age of 99. For 50 years, she was a huge part of my family\u2013going back to when she and Mom worked for Dad\u2019s company Leeds. Instrumental in bringing my late parents together, Tante Chaya persuaded Mom to stay at Leeds when she wanted to resign within weeks of starting. She also convinced Mom to take a chance on Dad years later and was the one who managed to find a rabbi who would marry them (Mom was Catholic, Dad was Jewish and interfaith marriages were a rarity at the time). It\u2019s no exaggeration to say that, without Tante Chaya, I probably wouldn\u2019t be here.<\/p>\n
Though she never had children, Tante Chaya was a surrogate mother to me, Bobbi and so many blessed to know her. Her no nonsense advice and razor sharp wit never failed to make life\u2019s trials\u2014especially those of the romantic variety\u2013easier to bear.<\/p>\n
I will never forget the conversations we had\u2013about everything from cherished memories of Mom and Dad to celebrity breakups and of course, affairs of the heart. Tante Chaya encouraged me to never give up on finding love. She was so eager for me to meet my mate that she proudly showed me the gown hanging in her closet, on hold for her to wear at my future wedding day.<\/p>\n
Should that day ever come, I know she will be by my side, as she was in life for me and my parents. I have no doubt they are all together again.<\/p>\n
Rest in peace, Tante Chaya. You will be in our hearts forever.<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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