{"id":459,"date":"2016-03-31T22:05:57","date_gmt":"2016-03-31T22:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=459"},"modified":"2016-03-31T22:07:04","modified_gmt":"2016-03-31T22:07:04","slug":"a-new-chapter-begins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/?p=459","title":{"rendered":"A New Chapter Begins"},"content":{"rendered":"<body><p><\/p>\u00a0\n<p>When it comes to embarking on a new chapter in life, I\u2019m rediscovering that timing really is everything. The time has never felt more right for me to take an extended break from New York. So it is with the happiest heart that I prepare to leave my beloved Big Apple for LA.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_460\" style=\"width: 970px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/SantaMonica.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-460\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-460\" class=\"wp-image-460 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/SantaMonica.jpg?resize=640%2C480\" alt=\"SantaMonica\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/SantaMonica.jpg?w=960 960w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/SantaMonica.jpg?resize=300%2C225 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/SantaMonica.jpg?resize=768%2C576 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-460\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">All smiles in Santa Monica (July 2013)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My journey to becoming an Angeleno began, in some ways, half a lifetime ago, when I fell in love for the first time with a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.singlegalnyc.com\/?p=211\" target=\"_blank\">California guy<\/a>. During the year of that bicoastal romance, I was introduced to some of the West Coast\u2019s varied attractions\u2013from the charms of Santa Monica and majesty of the Pacific Coast Highway to quaint beachside town Morro Bay. Though the love affair ended, it was only the beginning of my fondness for Cali.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, I have enjoyed a weekend getaway to San Francisco and Napa, unexpected romance in San Diego and many, many trips to visit friends in L.A. It was during one particular visit nearly 3 years ago that my California dreaming began.<\/p>\n<p>Longtime dear friend A invited me to join his wife at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.singlegalnyc.com\/?p=5144\" target=\"_blank\">Malibu Winery <\/a>to watch their incredibly talented daughter Ren perform outdoors. Sitting there in the sunshine with the mountains behind us, I found myself wondering\u2013<em>why have I never lived here??<\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_462\" style=\"width: 970px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/MalibuWinery.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-462\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-462\" class=\"wp-image-462 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/MalibuWinery.jpg?resize=640%2C480\" alt=\"MalibuWinery\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/MalibuWinery.jpg?w=960 960w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/MalibuWinery.jpg?resize=300%2C225 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.newyorkcitygal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/MalibuWinery.jpg?resize=768%2C576 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-462\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A glorious afternoon at Malibu Winery with A and his wife Leslie<\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>That question intensified when I applied for a job in LA. The news that I didn\u2019t get it came as I headed West for a third time in six months. At this point, the question shifted to, can this born and bred New Yorker navigate LA\u2019s car \u2013 based lifestyle? Was I really <em>ready<\/em> to bid farewell to my hometown, or just going through the inevitable weariness that comes with living in the city synonymous with hustle and bustle?<\/p>\n<p>So I settled back into NYC life, or I tried to at least. What I found, though, was that it became increasingly more difficult to keep up with the relentlessly fast pace here. Travels to other places only amplified my desire to slow down. And once again, my thoughts turned to LA.<\/p>\n<p>Despite the frequent rivalry between my first and future hometowns, I have always felt that New York is yin to LA\u2019s yang. Opposites that compliment one another. And for this Big Apple native, there\u2019s no other city which feels more appropriate to explore as a local.<\/p>\n<p>Like I said, timing is everything. Two years ago, I reached out to a Starwood colleague who was making the move from LA to NYC. She graciously shared her insights about her life and career in Cali. We had the chance to work together while she was here, and stayed in touch after she went back last fall. She is now going to be my boss and I couldn\u2019t be happier about it.<\/p>\n<p>Along with congratulations and best wishes, I\u2019ve received some questions from family and friends. Among the most popular\u2013how can I possibly leave NYC?<\/p>\n<p>Quite easily, actually. Having already lived in Sydney, I know I\u2019m going to love the beach \u2013 cosmopolitan city lifestyle of LA. And I\u2019m also going to love spending more time with A and my other friends out there.<\/p>\n<p>And, even though my zip code is about to change, one thing most assuredly will not\u2013I am a New York City Gal. Forever proud to be, just ready to adopt a new hometown.<\/p>\n<p>The adventure begins April 10th!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 When it comes to embarking on a new chapter in life, I\u2019m rediscovering that timing really is everything. The time has never felt more right for me to take an extended break from New York. 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